So. In continuing with my new use for the blog, I have a special guest today. My hubs is here to give you all a bit of super personal insight that I am not sure I agree with but what the heck, right? Have fun!

Hi everyone. A little history since I don’t know how much you know about us. When I met Milly I knew she loved to read and write but never realized she’d  reach this goal so quickly. We met when she was only 21 yrs old and have been together for going on fifteen years. The things we’ve been through in this time have  proven to me time and again that there is nobody that is more on my side than her.

 I did encourage her from the beginning to put her books out, but she was always scared to let anyone read her work. I’m glad she finally did because she loves writing. Though at times I see little of her because she’s always doing something, I know she’s doing something she loves so I don’t stress it. Milly is the type of person who will give to anyone without asking for anything in return. Sometimes that’s hard for people to understand because there are not many like her. I realized this when I met her and it took me one look before I knew she’d be my wife.

I know some people have asked if I’ve read any of her books. I haven’t. I mean I probably already know what’s happening since there have been some instances where I’ll be passing by her office and all of a sudden she yanks me inside and tells me to do this or that. A lot of times this turns out to be quite fun for both of us. I mean what guy will say no to his wife wanting to get sexy without him having to ask? Not this guy. Heck, just her giving me any kind of look is enough to get me naked in under 30 seconds. Not that you needed to know that or anything. Truth is, I enjoy anything to help her writing and me to get lucky.

There were some instances where the research didn’t work out so well. One time she asked me to spank her and I’ve never spanked any woman before.

I have really large hands. I worried about hurting her, but she was very demanding- something that if you know her, know is second nature to her. So we’re enjoying this ‘research’ and I go and try the spanking. Again, I’ve never spanked her or anyone before. And my only spanking experience is when my mom busted me upside the head when I was a kid so not a good way to start. For those that don’t know, my wife has a big butt. Which is awesome for me since that’s one of the things I like about her. But I figured since she has a big butt I didn’t have to be super soft. So I was going to do it. I was going to spank her.

She’s always saying how in her books women ask for more and harder so I got the idea in my head she wouldn’t have to tell me twice. I pulled my hand back and swatted her softly. Or so I thought.

She scooted away from me and screamed. Bad sign #1. Then she whipped around and gave me the evil glare. Bad sign #2. Yeah, you know the one. You women use it to tell a man with your eyes that the ‘shop’ is closed and any attempt at trying to go anywhere near it will result in electricution for his dumbass.

She tells me I was too rough. Well I did tell her I had never done that before. I apologized and that was the end of that experiment. Bad sign #3. I didn’t get any further that time. But if you know Milly, she’s persistent. (BOSSY) 

The next experiment gone wrong was the time she wanted me to pull her hair. Don’t get me wrong, I will gladly pull her hair but my wife gets migraines and has sensitive scalp. So I was unsure if that was a good idea. She said to do it, so I did. What kind of guy would I be to deny my wife of the research she needs to write hot sex? And get some in the process.

So we’re having a good time doing some new things when she gets on all four and proceeds to tell me what she wants me to do to see if it will work in her book. That included the hair pulling. I said okay. So I grabbed her hair and pulled a little. And I gotta say. It was fun. I got a little carried away with the pulling though. Before I realized it she was yelling for me to let go of her hair. Apparently I got so into it I started to pull harder and harder and didn’t notice. Yeah. That killed that experiment. Can I catch a break? Yes, I can.

But not all have been failures. We’ve had some great results. Except for the time we went on vacation and stained a suede sofa with some lube. That was an expensive experiment but we both enjoyed the results. All in all I gotta say our success rate has been great versus the ones I am banned from talking about or reminding her of.

On the plus side, I’ve got the right spanking and hair pulling pressure and speed down packed! Yeah, I’m good like that. Point for the husband! Only took a few not so fun times to figure it out, but now I am officially ‘the man’ when it comes to that and some other areas she swore she’d kick my ass on if I mentioned.

When I married my bossy wife, I didn’t realize our sex life might inspire her writing. But I am more than willing to sacrifice my time and my body for her books. You ladies can thank me by encouraging new research which involves sex. Lots of sex.

But back to the real reason I’m here. People always ask her how I feel about her writing what she writes. I think it’s fantastic. It doesn’t matter what she writes as long as she loves what she writes. I know writing isn’t easy. There have been days (sometimes weeks) she’ll stress over a story and even get upset she can’t figure it out. She doubts herself constantly and I wish I could stop that. But there is no question about how much I want her to succeed. Not for any reason other than I really like it when she’s happy. She’s always encouraged me to do whatever I want, so I want her to be the best she can at what she loves.

Through the years we’ve had our ups and downs but one thing is for certain, I’ll always stand by her in whatever she does. Just like she’s done for me. I know I don’t tell her this often enough, but I love my wife. We argue and disagree on things (usually because she always wants her way…did I mention she’s BOSSY?) but at the end of the day I’ll always be here for her and I know she’s always here for me.  We have a beautiful family and that’s what matters most.

Thanks for letting me chill with you and hopefully she doesn’t ban me now that I shared too much information!

~T.